It's been a long time since I touched my blog. Too many things have happened since my last post.i guess I got lazy because of Facebook. But now I'm ready to write this diary of my thoughts now that I'm a widow. I'll write about food of course, my life as a widow and grief, my #griefrelievers #yangyang, my interest in Chinese drama, #myyearoffirsts #2yearwidow. Random thoughts, fanfic material. Travel. I need to exercise my brains and writing skills.